You’ve spent the whole week running around and taking care of everyone, and now you’re finally sitting on the couch with a glass of wine, enjoying a rare moment of peace. Your husband walks in, plops down next to you, and immediately starts complaining about everything you didn’t do this week. Your mind short-circuits, this is exactly the problem. It’s just not fun anymore.

Does this sound familiar?

You agreed that your partner would pick up the kids and you’d handle dinner. You’re stirring the pots, cooking furiously, when your child calls asking to be picked up. You remind them that dad is on taxi duty today, but your child says, “Dad just messaged, he’s having drinks with a colleague and said you would pick me up.” You can barely resist the urge to throw the pans at the wall. On the drive over, you’re overwhelmed by the feeling that you’re doing this all alone. Wasn’t this supposed to be a team effort?

At work, things are intense. Deadlines are piling up, and the stress is taking its toll. You tell your partner that you’re overwhelmed and could really use some extra help keeping things running at home. You’re hoping he’ll respond with understanding, maybe say you don’t have to worry, but instead he tells you to stop overreacting. His work is the one that’s really demanding, with way more deadlines. You’re left feeling stunned and invisible, again; it’s like he’s the only one who matters. And you’re beginning to question the relationship altogether.

You’re looking forward to a nice dinner with that one friend you haven’t seen in a while. You’ve picked out a great outfit and feel good about how you look. But the moment your husband sees you, he asks, “Who are you getting all dressed up for?”, then irritatedly adds “You never dress up for me anymore”. Instantly, you feel guilty. All evening long, you feel off, unsure of yourself, and unable to enjoy your time with your friend.

You’re not sure why, but you’ve been sleeping terribly for weeks. You wake up in the middle of the night and struggle to fall back asleep. You try getting up quietly, having a drink of water and reading a little on your e-reader, its brightness set to 10% so you don’t disturb your husband. But no matter how softly you move, he gets angry, starts a fight, and accuses you of ruining his sleep and being the reason he can’t function at work. You feel misunderstood, sad, and angry. You still love him on some level, but is it still enough?

It’s Sunday. You’d planned earlier in the week to do something fun with the kids today. The kids are excited, and you are too, but your husband is grumpy, staring blankly at the TV. You ask if he’s looking forward to the day, and he doesn’t respond. He sits there in silence. It feels like a heavy blanket is being thrown over you. There’s barely any connection between you. You don’t know what to say anymore, and you feel isolated and shut out.

How would it feel if…

  • You knew you were parenting together, sharing the “taxi” duties as a team
  • You felt that you mattered too, and no longer questioned your relationship
  • You could enjoy wearing a nice outfit and going out with a friend, without guilt or self-doubt
  • You felt loved and understood again
  • You didn’t feel alone anymore, and could connect with your partner and share excitement for the day

This is possible for you too

If you start my Stay Connected coaching program now, you’ll begin the journey toward a relationship that feels good again. The program includes 6 online sessions of 1 hour each, spread over 3 months. During these sessions, we’ll work on the kind of relationship you want to have with your partner, the kind that brings you joy and connection again.

The investment for this is 850 euros (VAT-exempt). If you prefer to pay in 2 installments, that’s possible too, with an investment of 450 euros per installment.

After the Stay Connected program, you’ll find that

  • You feel like a team again, so when your child calls, you’re not overcome with the feeling you’re in this alone
  • You come home from a stressful day, share your story, and your partner listens with care and asks what you need
  • You’re back to being the confident, fun woman who enjoys a night out without guilt or self-doubt
  • Even if your sleep doesn’t improve overnight, you care for yourself without fear of your partner getting angry
  • You know what to say to connect with your partner, you understand both yourself and him better, and you no longer feel excluded

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Q & A

Is the Stay Connected program also suitable if I want to divorce?
Yes, absolutely. Even if you’re heading toward separation, this program helps you communicate better so it becomes a respectful process, not a destructive one.

Does my partner need to join?
No, it’s not necessary. It would be great if he supports your journey, but this program focuses on your personal growth and what you need in the relationship.

I’ve already tried everything, and my husband doesn’t change. Why would this help?
Because this program focuses on what’s important to you and what you want to change. That means the change begins with you, and that takes time and energy. If your partner truly isn’t willing to grow with you, I’ll help you explore your next steps.